Everyone assumes that everyone else is having sex all the time: this is rarely the case. We want to know what the real truth is behind quantity and quality of men’s sex lives

The late, often great, AA Gill once wrote an editorial piece saying that men thought that all other men were having sex all of the time. As he revealed, this was just untrue. Even he, as a gentleman about town, said that frequency of sex was grossly over-inflated. In short, we’re all lucky to be getting some when we do!

So now we want your help. How much we’re having sex depends on a multitude of factors; your relationship status, your age, your mood, your sex-drive, your self-esteem, and just your personal preference! It really doesn’t matter on the frequency of sex, but instead how much you’re enjoying it when you’re having it – and if the amount works for you personally. 

That said, have you ever wondered how much sex you’re having compared to those around you? We’re on a mission to try to find out just how often we’re all really having to do the deed. 

Fill out the anonymous survey here and we’ll share the results soon alongside key insight from a sex therapist very soon. Stay tuned.